"Be fearless in the pursuit of
What sets your soul on fire"
MISSION: CELEBRATING BLACK LOVE
Pam is dedicated to promoting romance and love between Black men and Black women. Too often, we hear stories of Black men who will not commit or who only date outside of their race and Black women who are too hard to love. It is sometimes true, but mostly an overgeneralization. There are many great stories of Black men loving Black women.
What has been particularly frustrating to Pam, over the last year or so, are the number of television commercials featuring Black men with every race of woman except Black women. It is as if corporate America has decided that the Black woman does not exist or is not worthy of being shown in fun, loving relationships. Pam also found that there are very few commercials of Black women with non-Black men.
Pam now uses her “voice” in writing, to present a different perspective.
To Pam, there is something special about the way Black men and Black women relate to one another and love one another that is fun, sexy, and fantastic to feel! She promotes these relationships in her writing and when speaking in interviews as well as in public forums.
Pam writes about Black love in sensual, layered romance novels. Her characters are seasoned by time and experience, bold and strong, flawed and sensitive, and all kinds of sexy. Her stories are compelling, heart-wrenching, and romantic.
Pam Kelly now resides in the Dallas-Ft. Worth Metroplex, where she is always reading, writing, and saying YESSS to life experiences.
UNIVERSAL TRUTHS in ROMANCE and LOVE
- Men and women all want to love and be loved.
- Human touch is important emotionally and psychologically. It helps to connect people and build trust.
- Sensuality and good sex is important to have, explore, and nurture; bad sex is hard to overcome, and relationships can work even when there is no sex.
- Relationships are always tested.
- Love at first sight does happen and it can last a lifetime.
These insights often provide great storylines or points of interest in Pam’s writing.
Pam also found that in the Black community, many men and women do not really know how to romance and love someone. People replicate what they see in the home, among family and friends, or in the media. Too often, with no prior discussion or direction, we have bad experiences before we learn and find real love.